Things to Avoid in 12 Rabi ul Awwal
The 12th of Rabi ul Awwal is one of the most blessed days in the Islamic calendar. 12 Rabi ul Awwal is considered to mark the birth of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, who brought light, guidance, and mercy to all of humanity. Around the world, Muslims show love and devotion to the Prophet ﷺ on this day through gatherings, recitation of Qur’an, sending Durood, and learning about his Seerah (life).
However, while celebrating this sacred occasion, it is equally important to ensure that our actions align with the teachings of Islam. Unfortunately, certain practices have become common in some communities that go against the spirit of the Sunnah. In this article, we will highlight things to avoid in 12 Rabi ul Awwal so that our remembrance remains pure and beneficial.
1. Avoid Turning Celebrations into Extravagance
Islam encourages simplicity and balance. Spending huge amounts of money on decorations, lights, or unnecessary displays takes away from the real purpose of the day—remembering the Prophet ﷺ and his message. Extravagance not only wastes resources but also goes against the teachings of moderation in the Qur’an.
What to do instead: Spend on feeding the poor, supporting orphans, or arranging educational programs about the Prophet’s Seerah.
2. Avoid Innovations (Bid‘ah)
While love for the Prophet ﷺ is necessary, it should not lead to practices that were never taught by him or his companions. Adding rituals, unverified traditions, or acts of worship that are not part of Islam falls under bid‘ah (innovation). These practices may bring temporary joy but do not bring true reward.
What to do instead: Engage in acts clearly encouraged in Sunnah—like reciting Qur’an, sending abundant Salawat (Durood), and reflecting on the Prophet’s teachings.
3. Avoid Neglecting Salah
Some people become so busy in preparations and gatherings that they delay or even miss their prayers. This is a serious mistake because Salah is the most important act of worship after Shahadah. How can we claim to honor the Prophet ﷺ while ignoring the very worship he emphasized the most?
What to do instead: Ensure that Salah is performed on time and encourage others in gatherings to pray together.
4. Avoid Music and Un-Islamic Entertainment
In some processions or celebrations, loud music and dancing are used in the name of joy. This practice not only distracts from the spiritual purpose but are also against Islamic teachings. The Prophet ﷺ never encouraged such forms of celebration.
What to do instead: Replace music with recitation of Qur’an, naats without instruments, and speeches about the Prophet ﷺ.
5. Avoid Division and Arguments
Sadly, 12 Rabi ul Awwal often becomes a reason for division among Muslims, with debates over whether it should be celebrated or not. Arguments and fighting over this blessed day only harm the unity of the Ummah. The Prophet ﷺ taught brotherhood, not conflict.
What to do instead: Respect differences of opinion, avoid arguments, and focus on what unites us—love for the Prophet ﷺ and following his Sunnah.
6. Avoid Neglecting the Poor and Needy
True love for the Prophet ﷺ means following his concern for the poor. Spending thousands on lights, fireworks, or processions while ignoring hungry families around us contradicts his Sunnah.
What to do instead: Share meals with the less fortunate, donate clothes, or contribute to community welfare in his memory.
7. Avoid Fireworks and Harmful Practices
In some areas, fireworks and crackers are common during 12 Rabi ul Awwal. These not only cause harm to the environment but also waste money and create disturbance, which Islam discourages.
What to do instead: Engage in peaceful gatherings filled with Qur’an recitation, Durood, and reminders from Seerah.
8. Avoid Making It a One-Day Affair
Many people only remember the Prophet ﷺ on 12 Rabi ul Awwal and forget about his Sunnah for the rest of the year. This contradicts the true spirit of following him as a role model.
What to do instead: Take this day as a reminder to continue practicing his teachings daily—honesty, kindness, patience, and devotion to Allah.
Conclusion
12 Rabi ul Awwal is not about lavish celebrations or rituals; it is about deep love, respect, and reflection on the life of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. By avoiding innovations, extravagance, neglect of prayer, and un-Islamic practices, Muslims can ensure that their celebrations remain within the boundaries of Islam.
The best way to honor the Prophet ﷺ is not only to celebrate his birth but to live by his teachings every single day. That is where the real blessing lies.
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